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Silence Please

Assalamu'alaikum

Angah's (my 2nd big bro) kenduri is just around the corner. To be exact, it's only two more days. Nikah will be on Friday, kenduri di rumah pengantin perempuan on Saturday and Sunday will be our family's reception ceremony at IDEAL, UPM.

Most of the things have been settled and I'm sure Mama and Abah are the two most tiring people by now. Good job Mama and Abah!!

However, although I'm just the helper, I do realize that I'm the one who sighs a lot as if every burden is on me...( I do think so). I whine because...

- as if I have to run everything in the house
-as if I have to take care of everything about the kenduri
-as if I have to ... (can't really think of any other reason)
..............

"can't really think of any other reason" tells me that I should stop whining. There aren't actually much that I have to do and did. Thus, I told myself to keep my mind in silence and do everything that I have to without any arguments or words.

Once I heard a lecturer said, " the 3M which keep a person to fail are:

1. Mengeluh
2. Merungut and
3. Mind- setting"

Do I want to be a failure?

No. So stop whining. Keep the mind in peace and silence please.






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